About Caroline:
Caroline has more than 30 years' experience in family law, with renowned expertise in international child relocation and cohabitation claims, as well as complex financial provision cases.
Adoption or surrogacy is a joyful milestone, but it’s vital to understand the legal considerations. Get expert support from our specialist lawyers to guide you through the process.
Families created by adoption or non-traditional routes, such as assisted reproduction, donor conception or surrogacy, can result in uncertainty about the legal position for those involved in so far as their legal status to the child is concerned. It is important that if you are planning to start a family via an alternative route, you seek expert advice prior to conception or starting the adoption process. Our top family lawyers have the in-depth expertise to guide you through these issues.
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Adoption is a legal procedure that establishes an individual as a child's parent. Our family law solicitors are here to guide you through each step, ensuring all legal requirements are fulfilled while safeguarding your and your child's rights.
Surrogacy arrangements may be made in the UK abroad and can be complex. Our surrogacy solicitors can advise you at any stage, but we recommend that advice is sought prior to putting arrangements in hand.
We can assist with obtaining a parental order following surrogacy or an adoption order to secure your parental status.
Establishing legal parenthood impacts financial responsibility, inheritance, and nationality.
We can help you work out whether you or your partner has parental responsibility, how to obtain it, and the effect it will have on your family.
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About Caroline:
Caroline has more than 30 years' experience in family law, with renowned expertise in international child relocation and cohabitation claims, as well as complex financial provision cases.
About Lottie:
Lottie has over eighteen years’ experience advising on family law. She is a Resolution accredited specialist in international family law, children law (disputes between parents or relatives) and complex financial and property matters (high-income households and substantial assets).A child can only have two legal parents. It follows that if the court makes an adoption or parental order, the effect will be to extinguish the legal parenthood of the original parents.
Whether the egg donor is the legal parent of the child will depend on their relationship with the birth mother. The birth mother is always the legal mother regardless of whether they are the biological mother.
If the egg donor is the birth mother’s spouse, civil partner, or unmarried partner, it is possible for them to be the second legal parent of the child provided certain formalities are complied with.
Unlike sperm donation, it is only possible to obtain a donor egg from a fertility clinic. It is possible to conceive using a donor egg from either a known or anonymous donor.
Whether or not a sperm donor is a legal parent of a child, and as a consequence financially responsible for that child, will depend on how the child is conceived.
Donation through a UK licensed clinic:
Conception at home:
At present under UK law the birth mother is always the legal parent. It follows that upon birth, the surrogate will be the child’s legal mother, irrespective of whether the child is born in the UK or overseas.
If the surrogate is married or in a civil partnership, their partner will be the other legal parent even though they will have no biological connection to the child. This rule applies unless the husband, wife or civil partner of the surrogate can show that they did not consent to the conception.
If the surrogate is not married or in a civil partnership, the second legal parent will normally be the intended father (assuming he is the biological father).
Alternatively, if conception takes place at a UK fertility clinic, someone else can be nominated as the second parent such as a non-biological father or an intended mother.
Yes, it is perfectly legal to enter into a surrogacy arrangement in the UK. However any form of commercial surrogacy is illegal. This means that no money, other than “reasonable expenses”, can be paid to the surrogate, unless authorised by a court. A criminal offence will be committed if a third party helps to negotiate or facilitate a surrogacy arrangement for payment, or a surrogate advertises her services.
UK law does not set out a clear definition of what constitutes “reasonable expenses. In the case of Re A, B and C (UK surrogacy expenses) (2016) EWFC 33, Ms Justice Russell DBE referred to a “going rate” of between £8,000 and £15,000 but observed that, “There is no universally acceptable figure to pay for surrogacy expenses in the UK, irrespective of the circumstances in law, whether it is £15,000 or more or less.”
No. As things stand surrogacy agreements are unenforceable in the UK. This is because under English Law, a surrogate cannot be forced via any contractual provision to hand over their baby and likewise the intended parents cannot be forced to pay money to the surrogate or assume responsibility for the child upon birth. It follows that any such written agreement or contract will not be enforceable and a high level of trust needs to exist between the surrogate and the intended parents.
There is value in having a surrogacy agreement, even if it is not enforceable in the UK. Even though disputes rarely arise and in the vast majority of surrogacy arrangements everything goes to plan, it is always a good idea for anyone considering surrogacy to discuss matters in detail with the surrogate and commit any plans to paper so that everyone’s intentions and expectations are clear. That way disappointment, potential conflict and misunderstanding can be avoided.
Yes. It is widely accepted that the law in this area is ripe for reform. The Law Commission is presently undertaking a review of the law surrounding surrogacy and parental orders and their final report (and a draft bill) is expected in August 2022. It is anticipated that a new pathway will be introduced which will allow intended parents to become the legal parents from birth provided certain requirements are met.